A self-confessed 'sugar mama' has fans on TikTok begging her for a job after revealing she spoils her boy-toy lover with luxury vacations and gifts.  Julie, 44, a widow from the US, met her partner Zach, 29, on the dating app Bumble a year ago, and their unusual arrangement involves her treating him to the finer things in life — as long as he does whatever she wants.  This year alone she has spent a total of $30,000 on trips with him, including getaways to Cabo, Florida, and Niagara Falls.